
STUDENT ETIQUETTE WHEN VISITING YOUR INSTRUCTOR
DURING OFFICE HOURS
William Broderick, Professional Tutor
There are many misconceptions that students have about visiting
their instructors. A prevalent misconception is that the office
visit is a negative experience; however, the exact opposite is
true. The visit is the time to make a personal connection with
the professor who is there to be a positive source of advice.
For instance, if you are doing a research paper, the instructor
can recommend well-balanced and scholarly sources, or stress
ways of narrowing the focus of the research. Another misconception
is that only students who are struggling in the class must visit
the instructor. The reality is that the successful students are
the ones who make the most visits.
The successful students also
know the etiquette involved in the visit.
Some of the rules of etiquette are basically common courtesy;
however, there are other less evident rules. The most prevalent
breach of etiquette is not arriving on time. The student must
realize that others are scheduled. One student’s lateness
will disrupt the opportunity for all involved, including the
instructor. It might sound obvious, but the student should call
when running late and reschedule. When arriving at the office,
the student should knock on the door, even if the door is open,
and then wait for the instructor’s invitation. It is crucial
to turn your cell phone off. Do not set it on vibrate, so you
will not be tempted to answer the phone. Putting the instructor “on
hold” while you answer the phone is definitely not a good
idea.
Never arrive at the meeting unprepared; it is one way to turn
a positive situation into a negative. The instructor is there
to help you with your work, but is not there to do the work for
you. The student should not under any circumstances say or imply
that s/he does not have a clue of what the instructor wants done
for the assignment. A better approach would be to remind the
instructor of the assignment and show what you have done so far.
Bring a note pad to write down the instructor’s recommendations
and enjoy
your visit.
The office visit is one good way to lessen academic stress!